It’s important to feel like “you” on your wedding day, but remember, “you” are a beautiful and idiosyncratic bride-to-be. If you find yourself drawn to glitzier embellishments or edgier details than your day-job-self is accustomed to, indulge your curiosity. After all, getting married is an extraordinary thing.
But! Don’t venture too far out of your budget.
Heading out to find your dream dress? Here are five tips to make the experience feel like magic:
Before you go, get pretty and comfy.
Your chances of finding your dream dress increase significantly if you walk in with a) your cutest jeans and nail color, and b) a generally pleasant state of body and mind. In other words, treat yourself to tacos and a manicure before you go. (Just skip the gloss and eyeshadow, as you’ll be getting in and out of gowns.)
Know the style of your dress might be a wonderful surprise.
Trying on a thrice-your-price wedding gown can sabotage your “Yes!” moment later on. Stick to your real budget, and don’t forget to factor in the cost of alterations.
Embrace the feels.
Finding “the one” can stir up a lot of emotions. For some, the external evokes an internal response, and you can’t help but choke up a little (or a lot). That being said, crying is not the one-and-only sign of a dream gown—other brides will feel dazed, others giddy, and some a little freaked out (in a good way, we promise!).
Sometimes it’s better to feel, not think. There’s a reason a dress “just feels right”—you’re meant to hustle around in it for eight or nine hours and be sent off like royalty.
Crying is a great sign, but it’s not a requirement.